Fright night feedback

Feedback of any description (good or bad) is always a good thing... the fact that the promoter has invited you back and a magazine wants your submissions - well, that's about as positive as it gets. Sometimes positive feedback is empty feedback - but the feedback you've received is anything but. Congratulations!

I don't think you're mad - I think you're just a natural entertainer - "feeling the fear and doing it anyway" - I'm sure you'll get very used to it, become very comfortable. People like us enjoy attention - my advice is to milk it!

--and doing it anyway....one of my favourite sayings.
I do like sucking (amongst other things) the marrow out of life
The sex workers (both male and female) i have met have been larger than life, 'windswept and interesting people' as Billy Connolly.

Boredom is the worst feeling for me... which is why this industry is so goddam fascinating and exasperating and challenging and exacting.

Good luck with hopefully a deluge of panting phonecalls.

P.s---do you have any other marketing strategy (other than Scarlett)???

I agree wholeheartedly with you - this industry (and by that I mean the adult industry in its entirety) is such a vibrant, exciting, often daunting, always entertaining place - you cannot help to find it inspiring and exciting!

As for marketing strategies... to be brutally honest, other than continued banner exchanges and internet listing sites, I don't currently have anything else in the pipeline. I've invested heavily in the Scarlet ad simply because I haven't been able to find any other means of promotion or marketing - print media in the form of a womens glossy seems like a good idea - or should I say "seemed"!!! I asked the question where would a woman look for a male escort and the answer is met with blank looks - websites and forums such as this are surprisingly absent Of course, that is going to be met with the usual "that's 'cos there isn't a market" responses from the cynics - the truth, however, is that there IS a market but it's latent... women would (and do) book escorts - their problem is finding them!

---but that was the very POINT of my anecdotal delivery to the audience the other day.
All of the 'hired help' i met, came from what i thought was the very best Agency that i could find---and even then, i was left wanting (and i'm ---- a) not THAT hard to please---and b) I wasn't even looking for penetrative sex.)
There IS a market....and ladies are being sold short by self obsessed male sex workers who do it 'to get paid AND laid'.

I did not consider that ONE of them lived up to the not unreasonable expectations that i had--NOR did they apply and conform to a standard of excellence which I set myself when 'servicing patrons'
Don't get me started!!!!.

I personally hold the opinion that women want something very different out of an escort encounter when compared directly with what a man wants/expects. In fact, what women want from an escort encounter is not altogether different from what they want from a "man" in general - i.e. a 'conventional' companion. Attention, mental stimulation, good companionship, and dare I say it - more in the way of "foreplay" - i.e. sensual massage, touching, caressing - an encounter that plays more on the senses. Men, I think, are first and foremost, ESSENTIALLY after one thing - sexual release.

However, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong - again, I'm guilty here of making some sweeping generalisations - but I don't think they're very wide of the mark "in general"!

As for the majority of male sex workers being "self obsessed" and being "in it for themselves and their OWN gratification" (which is what you're saying, I think) - we could have a good discussion on this as I have anecdotal evidence from my wider adult industry experience that might be of interest to you. However, given that I don't want to discuss my previous adult industry involvement here, sadly we'd have to take it to email... drop me a line if you're interested!

---with everthing that you said (verbatim).
****issues disclaimer***** I DO NOT KNOW THIS MAN AND HAVE NOTHING TO GAIN FROM SAYING SO!!!!!

Yes, i WAS alluding to the 'gratifiaction' which Male escorts (and i am talking double digits here)think is all part of the plan.
It's just that i am too shy/much of a lady to say: 'OI' PAL, WHO IS PAYING WHO HERE?'

i will speak privately on more sensitive stuff later....