My infatuation

Is a horrible feeling but I can understand how he feels too, he has a girlfriend does not want to deceive her in anyway. A lot of girls would feel threatened by their partner suddenly becoming friends with another female even if sex wasn't involved. He obviously doesn't want a friendship that he would have to keep secret. As upsetting as it maybe for you the best thing is to put him out of your mind and accept that it just wont happen otherwise he will think you are stalking him!
Dont mean to sound hard, just honest.
Jx

I wish I could steal him off her,
But I don't want to have sex with him just be with him ALL the time,
I think he is starting to see me as a stalker

Do you think there is absolutely nothing I can say or do?

He doesn't know I escort so it isn't that

I really dont think there is anymore you can do .. he has made it very clear. The thing is imagine you did "steal him off her" to be with him all the time but didn't want sex with him, bit of a bum deal for him I would say!!
The reason is simple ... he is in luurve with another.
Hope you feel happier soon.
Jx

I mean I do want to have sex with him, loads,
I used my rabbit thinking about him and made myself come for 20 minutes
but what am meaning is I like everything else about him too not just sex

I think you will have to stick with your rabbit, otherwise you will end up boiling his bunnies ...
Jx

Unfortunately, I have always got the man, might take a long while but what K wants K gets. That is of course unless I have found a new piece of eye candy to distract me. Think men cant refuse G cups and big puppy eyes.

I find the men that mentally stimulate me do it for more than anything.

The one saving grace is at least he sounds like a decent guy, come on you know how gorgeous you are, you shocked me last time I saw you, for him to still remain favour, BLOODY HELL!!!!Rare.

I don't think there's anything you can do now.

You may not have meant it like that, but what you said does make you sound like a stalker. Sorry.

You say you don't want him for sex, but unless you explained in that email that you just wanted to be friends, that's exactly what it would have looked like to him, I expect. Well done to him for not compromising his relationship with his girlfriend.

How would you feel about a men who kept calling you, and begged you to spend some time with him so he could make you love him? Personally, I'd stay right the fuck away.

Or just a very nice guy,
Your right weren't the looks defo the personally and the fact he is the cleverist person that I have ever met

Stay the FUCK away, thats harsh!

And try to totally forget about him! defo

We can get good advice, I feel better already,
AND i am never going to contact him again, so don't want to be thought of as a stalker no way! not when lots of nice looking clever guys out there like me

It was a crush

I must say I would not pursue a man until I got him if he was attached, surely the other lady should be considered in these circumstances, hypocritical I know as we sleep with peoples husbands daily, but out of the escorting context I think it out of order and destructive for both the chaser and the other parties if we acted so selfishly for everything we ever wanted.
As Mick Jagger said "You cant always get what you want".
Jx

Sorry if I offended you, but that is exactly what I would think if I was in his position, so I thought you should know. I'm not saying you are that creepy, but er... that's how I think you were coming across in this case and you didn't seem to realise. I'm glad you've decided to move on to better things!

Have you joined the new site escorts only full of advice and help behind the scenes.
http://escortresource.forumup.co.uk/index.php?mforum=escortresource
Jx

I will have a look at that later x

suppose it did lol

I am not creepy at all, incase anyone has read this and thinks it,

I was just in love with him, I don't normally do things like that, so I thought I would tell you guys.

I will have forgotten his name next week anyway

I dont doubt it, many may say what are men like so easily
swayed by boobies well its just they look sooo good and are so great to touch kiss suck and nibble a little..

and oh yes the feel of them pressed against ones body.

It takes me back to a certain lap dance venue in London, this
being world cup 1998 the girls were all on a holding pattern
whilst the fucking footie played on a stage screen

Now, a sumptuous South African blonde had the St george flag painted on her breasts and eventually asked me if I wanted a private dance
to my shame I petulantly said "no offence, but Im fed up of football and all this England flag sctick" she said she quite understood and then sucker punched me by pressing her body full frontal against me
the sensation was better than 90% of the penile orgasms I have ever had,
I gibbered and had 2 private dances, alas this being a respectable post blairite council monitored joint I was not punished for my earlier impertinence but you cant have everything.

Im sure youve got puppy eyes to rival Sarah Michelle Gellars
too
ah yes as Robert Anton Wilson said womens breasts are two of the best things in creation.

all the best from
the Sith Lord of lurve

Yes well, Jess I wish I studied harder and got my computer systems engineering degree who knows what might have been

Sometimes I think men and women are totally different, sometimes I think they are just a different mix of the same tendancies like on a graphic equaliser

If I know a girl is smart or accomplished I do mfancy her more
to a degree this could create sexual desire in the face of ughliness but I would then need to make her fancy me!

cheers for sharing your all girl adventure

all the best

Darth

I would never pursue an attached man though. What comes around goes around and could you really trust a man that thought so little of his girlfriend to carry out a full on affair. I will never get involved with someone going through a divorce again, he cheated as soon as the divorce was finalised, then went and cheated again on his next partner, some people never learn.

Yes, but as I did say before, I did not actually know he had a girlfriend until after I had totally fallen for him.

AND I did say after discussing it and thinking about it on here that I was not going to persue him anymore as he is with someone else