LOVE, PAIN and LETTING GO
It’s over, he’s gone…..
Why do lovers have to part while the love is still there….
Why do we have cry when someone says good-bye??? Why do we have to suffer?? Why do beginnings have an end? Why do we have to Love and just lose it at the end??
In a relationship, one of the hardest things to do is saying good-bye and letting go. It is hard as breaking crystals because you’ll never know when you will be able to pick up the pieces again…More often than not, they who got the feel of parting were the one who stay behind that suffer because they are left with memories that was not meant to be…A love that was…
You remember, you were so much happy then, there were times that you two were laughing and telling some jokes. The late afternoon you two were sharing troubles, pains and tears that bothers both you, the moment you two were fighting and striving to find solutions in the time of hardship of your unspoken relationship. The thoughtfulness and the sweetness which both of you learned to love each other that easy. You thought it was forever but now you realized that he’s not really yours and he’s gone now….The question is, how long could you ease the pain?? How far can you go pretending?
Many of your friends’ ask “why does it always have to be me?” “How many times do I have to get hurt before I learn?”, “How can I handle it?”…
Personally, I am not wise when it comes to thing about the heart….I have same questions then. How can I get over him just like that when he is so good and loving?
Falling in love is the easiest thing to do, but getting out of it takes a lot of pain. When you’re hurt, no one could ever help you, not even yourself. Time has its own antidote for broken hearts. You don’t have to take steps on learning ways on how to forget him because sooner or later you will… LET IT GO – don’t hinder whatever you feel right now, if you feel like crying then cry, It will not harm you.. If you feel like spending the nights together with these memories then reminisce them up till your hearts content and it will cradle you to sleep.. You’ll be thankful that you’ve got memories after all, you’ll be glad that there was a time he spent loving you. A smile will be mounted on your lips realizing that he had loved you afterall……
At the start and at the end of the relationship, we embarrassed to find ourselves alone….Unfair it may seem but that’s the way love goes….Everything will eventually come to its end without us knowing how, as even knowing why…I don’t know if its worth calling an art but letting go entails special skills sparkle with considerable space and time….
Acceptance plays a big part…Remember that not all wishes come true, not all stories end with “and they live happily ever after”. Don’t try to kill the feeling for soon will be forgotten. Don’t say a word about tomorrow or forever, nothing stays the same….Everything changes and we cannot have control over them….who knows. It might be you and him at the end isn’t it? And when that time comes, you’ll be glad and proud to look back and find yourself a winner….You’re too young to really close your door, your heart to love. You have more o live and this is only the beginning….
It’s over, he’s gone….BUT life goes on. Goodbye doesn’t always mean forever…The important thing is to give yourself a break. Might sound cliché but “If you love someone, set him/her free. If he/she comes back then you’re really meant to be, but if he doesn’t , just learn to accept it…LOVE HAS WINGS TO FLY FROM LOVE AND TO FLY BACK AGAIN…………
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General Category: Relationships, Romance, Love
Current mood: curious
Added on: 09/29/08 01:33
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