New Escorts

I am a new escort just starting the business. I mean I have had my travels in the past but am now trying to get into the business harder now. I lost my job and decided to go into business for myself. Got tired of the unfair treatment. I have posted ads all over the place and I am finding it hard to get business flowing. Some, I posted with pictures and some I haven't. I have even emailed a couple of providers asking to be mentored in. But to no avail. I am starting to think that this businessis has over flooded with providers. I know there is a clientell for everyone, but it is hard to find them with everyone offering the same companionship. I've increased my prices and lowered my prices. Put out specials. But I guess noone trusts you when your new. I don't have any any references or reviews. The few people that I have seen want to remain completely private. I have other ideas of finding clients but I have to wait until those materials arrive. Any suggestions from anyone? Does ayone out there want a trainee?

i completely understand your frustrations. i have been in the business for about a year, and sometimes my weeks are flooded, others are dry. in the city where i live, i have noticed however triple the amount of servers in my area. i would be willing to give you any pearls of knowledge i possess; although to be honest my knowledge probably isnt much better than yours. i love this website, but know it would be helpful to advertise on a lot others..although the only ones i've found (through google), were more for european and asian clients. i would suggest posting ads on as many sites as possible, be willing to satisfy your client (while enjoying yourself at the same time...if you can, i know it's not 100 percent possible), and keep your prices. if you're going to cut them, just cut them slightly...you dont want to sell yourself short!!
btw, if anyone can help this lady, and me, by passing on some other sites that are valuable; i'm sure both of us would appreciate it.

Dont let it get you down ............... shit happens ............

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Yes... TanyaMAE is right... It happens to every escort... And everyone here has gone through this stage at some time... During the recession, it was all so wild.. Dates were decided and cancelled at an hour's notice.. It was real tough... Things're getting better slowly n steadily for us...

Ms. Butter you need to create your photo gallery. My experience in this profession tells me that a female escort can't do without photo gallery. Create your blog and start posting blog posts about your experience, life, sexual encounters before this... Keep participating in the forums too. That'll help a lot! Good Luck... :) I am sure, you'll soon be doing great business...

For starters you need more pics. Doesn't have to be anything special but something that shows the gentlemen what they can expect to see. the pic you have on here is pretty vague. get someone to take a pic of you in a bra and panty, or nude, whatever you feel comfortable showing online in a pic.

second, how far do you travel? you live in Topeka, KS which is probably about like my living in a small town in AL. I have to be willing to drive a couple hrs in any direction to go meet clients in bigger cities.

If your interested in trying incall, consider advertising in a big city's backpage.com and set the sessions up before you drive there and get the hotel room. (I can't do incall while my kid still lives at home so I'm just outcall).

as for sites to advertise on besides here

backpage.com
The Erotic Review
Datecheck.com
Escorts.com
http://www.escort.sexcia.com/add.html
cityvibe.com

try those

I think, If I work overseas as an escort, my income will be far higher, than now.

Advertise absolutely everywhere and put loads of links on your website. This shows clients you are serious and not a scam artist. A lot of my clients will not book girls who only are advertised in a few places because it is all to easy for girls like this to disappear.

For the same reasons, blogs are great for business. I thought they were a load of nonsense at first, but got bored and decided to start one. It has worked wonders. Forums are good for this too.

Hi Ms Butter
It is hard at times, the work will come and then stop, just keep advertising and getting your name out on the internet and places, i don't write a blog here, but do sometimes on my website, i dont write about clients so really don't write a lot, but you do need pictures all the time, its the number one request even if you have pictures on your website.

Good luck

You ladies can only how much worse it is for the males.
In any case, it's important to have alternate means of getting by.

Ok I know this is REALLY long so if you want to read it great but if not it's totally understandable. I just really wanted to be of some help if I could...

I think it's important to remember that this is first and foremost a business and it's all about marketing your product which in this case, is yourself. You may want to sit down and figure out exactly what type of image you would like to portray to those looking. Are you going for the girl next door, the vamp, the hot librarian? Who are you going to be? Once you've decided on that you then need to market yourself consistently that way. A good thing to do may be to sit down and write out your "story" for yourself. It can't vary to far from the real you because a client will see through that. So if you've had children you can't say that you haven't because your body will more than likely give you away. If you want to say that you were a marine biologist you better be prepared to talk about the ecosystem of the Atlantic Ocean...etc..Once you know "who" you are then set out to create that in your words and images. I think it's important to SHOW the client who you are rather than telling them. If you want them to think you're intelligent don't tell them you're intelligent, show them! Start a blog on different books you've read or things you've studied. But really try to resist the urge to say in your write ups on the different sites that you're "an intelligent, blah blah blah" because that's not going to go very far. Especially if you spell intelligent wrong like so many of the ladies do! I think one of the very best marketing tools you can use is having your own website. Using a provider such as Go Daddy or escortsite is a great way to go because you don't have to know a whole lot about web design to get started. Check out some of the websites of girls in your area to see what they are doing. If there is something on their site that you like or that catches your eye write it down so that you can do something like it on your site. Then when you begin to create a site keep in mind the image you want to put out there and stick to it. Show them how great you are by telling them who you are. And try to avoid dropping your prices. Find out what the average is in your area and stay there. If you lower your prices it can be very hard to raise them and it may seem like your desperate which is not something you want the clients to think. Use pictures that are classy and if you can avoid it at all don't use ones that have been taken by a phone camera or by yourself. Have a friend take some pictures of you in a nice setting to begin with and then when you can afford it get some professional shots taken. It will help a lot. Lastly be sure to change your profile pictures often. Clients like to see variety. Keep track of the sites that are bringing you business and lose the ones that aren't. It can take up a lot of time visiting every site you've signed up with and if they aren't generating clients then they aren't worth it. If there are sites that specifically target your area you may want to concentrate on those. National sites are fantastic but you may have better luck when you're getting started if you spend time on local boards. It can take time to get established but if you commit to a great marketing plan you'll hopefully begin to stand out from the crowd. There are a few things that I have done that have worked well for me..first I smile in my pictures. You'd be amazed by how many compliments I get because of that and by how many appointments I have gotten from it. Second, I have a website that is less about sex and more about who I am. Third I offer packages. These are dinner and movie and dessert type deals. I would love to be able to give you the link to my website but I'm in the process of creating a new one because I learned the hard way this last week that you need to find an "escort friendly" host! They deleted my site without telling me....and I had so much time invested in it that it broke my heart!
I know I've written a novel here but I really felt compelled to share with you some of the things I've done that have been very successful for me. I've been very fortunate because when I started this last October it took me less than a week to start booking appointments and I've never had a slow week and I live in MI where the economy is the worst in the country! And I'd love to take credit for all of this but most of this information came from the book "An Internet Escorts Guide" by Amanda Brooks. Good luck to you and if you need any help or have questions that you feel I might be able to help you with please don't hesitate to contact me.

Hi Arianna,

although I am not an escort, I must say that your advices are great.
Very well done!

Especially your warnings not to be a masquerader. I agree, an intelligent person does not introduce herself being intelligent, she shows it during an encounter, and never pretends to be what she is not.
Understatement is better than overstatement. It is recommended not to copy ads or ask somebody having a talent to write one for you. Do not fake your interview. If someone is not a native English speaker, then do not worry about this too much. During an encounter you are alone and the houses of cards, built before, break down.

Toni

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Everyboy is different. some time I have hlep some times not and it never affected a client I with. Only exception is those man who think after meeting me I will stop work and be his gf.