Why don't Escorts Respond to Email?

I've emailed a few escorts on this site, though the site email and the escort's and have not received a reply. But, I have called the lady and gotten in touch with her that way.

So...what's up with that? I get nervous every time I call a lady I don't know or haven't been with before, so I like my first contact to be email, then a phone call. Of course, I've had to adapt, I have no choice. If the lady only answers her phone then I've got to call her.

First, some escorts are too busy/lazy/irresponsible/absent-minded to read their messages inside their account here. It means they either login not so often (once every other month or so), or even upon login they do not go to their mail folder to read new messages. In this case I suggest to always send the second message using your local email client directly to user's email, after you've sent the first message.

Second, some are too busy/lazy/irresponsible/absent-minded to respond even after they have read your message. They might have been fully booked for several days, and temporarily lost the motivation to answer... Phone call is always a sure way to move forward here.

Maybe some girls will add any other reason they don't answer emails here.

I answer most email but mostly with questions... many of my emails are

- I want to see you send my your number....
- Are available any time?
- I will be in thailand __________ (dates) and want to meet you
- please send me some pictures and your mobile

ok these are some of the example.... I think one out of 100 tell anything about the man. If you want a girls attention PLEASE tell her not only when you are interested but Where you are from, what is your nationality meaning are caucasian, black, asian, arab, bird, beast or fish. Telling your age helps too.

What are you into? if you want normal sex, be dominated or have a carrot stuck up your arse why not tell it? Why waste time if the girls does not offer the service you are looking for?

honestly it some time take me up to 5 or so return emails to get out of him what he is looking for.

then you have the mosquito style men.....after you already tell them you do not provide what they ask they continue with some like " I am paying you whore you will take anyone who pay". WELL, these men must really be insulted cause I always email them back with..... How it feel that you are not even good enough that a lowly whore tell you no!!! that shut them up 99% of the time.

ANYWAY. Most men are polite and some I understand can be shy..... but please give us soem information to go on. I and I think I can safely say we as escorts want to provide you all the enjoyment in the world but we cant read your mind when you are typing.

My first email is an intial introduction telling a little about myself, age, nationality, sexual likes & dislikes, as well as the dates I'll DEFINITELY B there including the length of my booking of the lady. Once the ice has been broken, I gladly send my travel plans & hotel reservations for 2 ppl. Then it's just a matter of waiting til she & I meet.

I always answer my emails even if it is to decline a date. I dont like to leave people hanging because I dont like it done to me. I get alot of emails (especially when I was on a different site) that always said the same thing....lets meet tonight and there would be no info about them. And if the person was a no show or a time waster, I dont respond back to them. I hope you have better luck in the future. Not all escorts are lazy or absent-minded. I have a college degree, but the money is better doing this. So, best of luck!!!

My take on this is that the only reason for the girls to register into this site is just to put an ad on. Not to be active nor even answer emails and just wait for the people to call up.

That's what I thought then, and just found out that hey, I've got mails here too.

I know that was such dumb, but well we should consider that too anyway. Sometimes, if they dont answer, sending text message can help too. :)

There may be other reasons aside from escorts being 'flaky' in regard to not answering email. I used to answer all my mail politely no matter what and generally still do. However, if a message seems suspicious in some way or another, or if the writer doesn't appear to honestly wish to meet, or has clearly not read my ad/profile, I may not answer. Additionally, I may not answer if the writer and I do not seem to be a proper fit somehow. It has become my experience that not replying is sometimes nicer than a refusal no matter how polite it is, particularly since polite refusals can seem ambiguous and are easily misunderstood. I would not wish to cause somebody to feel bad if possible.

I've heard that happens often and I'm sorry. Not all of us are like that. I do all of my scheduling and contact myself and sometimes it is hard to keep track of several different ad boards and review boards, I am on about 5and it's not easy to respond quickly, it takes organization and consistency. If a provider doesn't respond to you right awayor within a day then move on, it just means they are going to be just as inconsistent further down the line. A provider should be prompt and considerate. Hope you have better luck in the future.